If they’re sitting in the last chair it might very well be your money - and everyone else’s at the table - when they hit on a 15 with the dealer showing a 6.
Assuming a random shuffle; who’s to say that their splitting of 10’s doesn’t lead to your getting five blackjacks in a row? It’s a butterfly effect. You have now way of knowing if their bad play helps you or hurts you. People just tend to notice it more when it hurts them. You might as well get mad at the person who put the cut card in a certain place on the deck.
Of course, all the wine you own is an occasion, Alan!
I’m with the chorus here in general, except that I will admit that I am more likely to open better bottles on the weekends than on weeknights as a overall/general proposition. Not necessarily at big social event kinds of things (I agree that great wines can get lost at those), but more likely on a weekend dinner at home, or the two of us or maybe with a few friends at a restaurant.
I have a 7 and a 10 year old and I work a regular job, so while we have wine most nights and don’t limit ourselves to inexpensive wines on weeknights, I’m less likely to open a $60+ wine on a Monday-Thursday than I am on a Friday, Saturday or Sunday.
Most of the reason for not opening the wines in my cellar is that they are too young and I know they will disappoint compared to a few years down the road (2011 Rhys for example). Once they are ready to go, the only real requirement is knowing that I have enough time to drink and enjoy the wine with minimal interruptions.
Since I never drink more than a glass of wine during an ordinary dinner at home with my wife (and she’ll drink half a glass), the Coravin has allowed me to justify pouring great wine for just the two of us. While I’m not pouring any super-expensive wines (no Giacosa red-labels, no Bordeaux first growths, no Vogue Musigny, etc.), I am pouring plenty of mature super seconds, Giacosa white labels, Jadot grand cru, etc.
Easy choice for me: “You will open any wine anytime you feel in the mood, midweek SQN with ribs” Upon discovery, 57% agreed which seems to support the passion about wine for each individual. Sharing wine is also paramount for me.