Not to hijack, but I’ve never gotten the dining alone thing at a really nice restaurant. At a sports bar, where you can watch a football game or read the paper, sure, but at a restaurant like Per Se, what do you do with yourself for 3 hours? Stare at folks between bites?
If you don’t have a significant other, and you don’t have a friend willing or able to go to a particular restaurant with you, should you just forego trying a restaurant you really want to go to?
I eat out alone all the time. It doesn’t bother me at all.
Mark, it is a 3 hour meal at best. I went with a friend and his wife for their anniversary. After 2.5 hours, we got asked for the third or 4th time if we wanted a “private” tour of the kitchen. They made it plenty clear that it was time to go. We got the cursory 5 minute tour of the kitchen, they then showed us the door and literally took a full wine glass out of my friend’s hand (with 1990 non-vineyard Giacosa Riserva, no less).
Per Se definitely does not like 3-tops either. Looks on opentable and there is a lot of availability over the next few weeks for 4 (even this friday at 8!) but only one of those slots shows up if you search for 3.
received a conviluted email from amex saying that they can’t directly make my reservation and that i should be receiving a call from the restaurant. that was 10/30 and i have yet to get a call.
sounds like i’ll be heading to emp in the near future, which isn’t too much of a punishment
Not willing to give the “my date should be here any moment” to “damn, she can’t make it?” while you are being seated? I guess by now they probably know who you are, and given that you have to give them a copy of your birth certificate in order to confirm…
And in the “for what it’s worth column,” the food I had at EMP the one time I went there did not even come close to what I was served recently a la carte at Per Se. And yes, I realize it is difficult to totally judge a restaurant’s “worthiness” by one visit, but sometimes that’s what you’ve got.